A smile is a strong sign of a friendly and open attitude and a willingness to communicate. It is a positive, silent sign sent with the hope the other person will smile back. When you smile, you show you have noticed the person in a positive way. The result? That person will usually smile back.
　　You might not realize a dosed position is the cause of many conversational problems. A common closed position is sitting with your arms and legs crossed and your hand covering your mouth or chin. This is often called the "thinking pose". Ask yourself this question: Are you going to interrupt someone who appears to be deep in thought? This position gives off "stay away" signs and prevents your main "sign sender" (your mouth) from being seen by others looking for inviting conversational signs.
　　The open body position is most effective when you place yourself within communicating distance of the other person--that is, within about five feet. Take care, however, not to enter someone's "personal space" by getting too close, too soon.
　　Leaning forward a little while a person is talking shows your interest and how you are listening to what the person is saying. By doing this, you are saying: I hear what you're saying, and I'm interested in--keep talking!
　　Often people will lean back with their hands over their mouth, chin, or behind their head in the "thinking" pose. This position, gives off signs of judgment, doubt, and lack of interest from the listener. Since most people do not feel comfortable when they think they are being judged, this leaning-back position serves to prevent the speaker from continuing.
　　In many cultures the most common form of first contact between two people is a handshake. Be the first to extend your hand in greeting. Couple this with a friendly "Hello", a nice smile, and your name and you have made the first step to open the lines of communication.
　　Eye contact should be natural, not forced or overdone. Direct eye contact shows you are listening to the other person and that you want to know about her.
　　51. A person smiles to show
　　A．he is kind and useful
　　B．he is happy all the time
　　C．he is ready to talk with
　　D．he sees something funny
　　52. according to the text, troubles in communication many result from___.
　　A．a(chǎn) dosed
　　B．a(chǎn)n open body position
　　C．no smile
　　D．the main "sign senders"
　　53. Leaning hack with your hands behind your head in deep thought while a person is talking_________.
　　A．shows you are interested in and listening to what the speaker is saying
　　B．shows you want to keep some distance from the speaker
　　C．makes him think you are thinking about something else
　　D．makes him believe you are not interested in his talk
　　54. All of the following gestures encourage communication except________.
　　A．leaning forward a little while a person is talking
　　B．crossing your arms
　　C．looking in others' eyes
　　D．extending your hand in greeting
　　55. From the text we know that________.
　　A．communication depends little on verbal language and much on body language
　　B．gestures always prevent the "sign sender" (mouth)
　　C．we should pay much attention to body language
　　D．eye contact is always helpful
　　篇章分析
　　本文是一篇說明文，介紹了姿勢或肢體語言對于交流的重要性。文章第一段介紹了微笑是交流的積極信號，第二段講述一些封閉的姿勢如雙手交叉等會給交流帶來麻煩，第三段講述與人交流時兩人最好應(yīng)保持在5英寸的距離內(nèi)，第四段講述將身體略微前傾能顯示出交流的興趣，第五段介紹了一些顯示出沒興趣交流的肢體語言，第六段介紹握手的作用和方式，最后一段介紹目光交流的重要性和方式。